Update from about 2 years ago. After a year reconcillation, I decided that I didn't have it in me to forgive. We separated and me and my ex husband are now divorced. Now here's the kick in the butt, he went right back to the other woman! We tried to remain cordial and friendly but now I don't want to be friends. To me this was like putting salt in a wound. This hurt all over again. After all he said about her, how could he go back to her Am I wrong for feeling this?