T2, I normally don't post round here...its like different turf. Jets and Sharks...see how many get that reference.
That beign said, There are a ton of amazing people here to help you out. Sooo I'm not sure why the invite to come and help you out here. My experince lies in helping...or bashing idiots in MLC.
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My problem is I feel guilty when I spend time with boyfriend when I have the kids. I feel like I am taking away time from them.
Well you are. : ) Were you expecting that? Prob not.
You are BUT that is a good thing. Look IF the sky was green and you and your husband were still together, you would (hopefully) have date nights just you two.
This is a little different BUT just as vital. Adult alone time...I'm not just talking sex here, but adult conversations and togetherness without a pillow to the face.
Look your kids are your world. To the right guy, YOU are his world, and the two worlds need to orbit for harmony. Capice?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
