Ali, have a great time tonight, as ever I feel you jump to quickly to make excuses for him, but thats just me and Maria I think. It's not pride but self respect and it wasn't me who first suggested that he needs time alone before you possibly get back together it was Michelle
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IF he did end it with Helen, he needs to mourn and be okay on his own. He needs to realize he is complete on his own, and choose to come back to you cuz he wants to, not out of loneliness.
Yes you got together within hours of dumping/leaving relationships but that was then, this is now and it's not the first time on this merry go round. Someone pointed out awhile ago how your mood changes rapidly after some contact with the x. I think you denied it-lol but I worry about you getting burnt. I wasn't suggesting you didn't look nice I made a point of saying do it for you. I have suffered from severe depression and I know I was not easy to live with, so you are extremely lucky that he has a depression that affects no one but him, I'm sure many on the bb would love to live with someone that has his type of depression.
I really hope you have a great night and things go as you wish/hope for. I laughed that you had an ace up your sleeve-you impulsive girl! I can't believe that you didn't tell Cher about the Picean and if that's true I wonder why when you tell her everything else,not like you to keep a secret. Anyway Petal,I feel like your mother here, have fun, be good and take care of your heart.
