First Piecing Thread

[Hope4us]

Oh WDID. I hear what you're saying. Yes, marriages have their ups and downs. But every weekend and times away and vacations = good and when she's at work = withdrawn from me?

There's too much of a pattern. Something at work is triggering her. It's just so consistent that it has to be something there that's triggering her or going on that causes it.

And the problem I have is, if she truly wants to see if we can make it work, wouldn't you want to do whatever you could to not have those triggers? You yourself have told me so. So why should it be different for her?

You're correct, when I do call her on it, she changes her tune. I will keep doing it. Maybe it's like you said either here or on FB, it's like she needs to be trained on what's acceptable to me because in the past I let her get away with it?

I'm still not sure about thanking her for getting rid of the glass or not. Yes, she did what she wanted. And I really appreciate it. But I can see her thinking "I got rid of the glass and he doesn't even acknowledge it"?

Food for thought. Keep the opinions coming. It's 2 to 1 against saying anything to her about the glass.