Glad to hear he is coming out of the fog a bit, for your sake and the kids. I was able to get my D a replacement phone,(she is on H plan) we just couldn't get the discount that my H is qualified for without his approval. We didn't bother asking for his approval.
Good luck!
Me:44 H:40 D:14 S:12 Bomb: 12/08 & 12/04 H moved out 2/09