My W appears to be a genius a word plays and 1 liners to justify her actions. Some are so outrageous that I've been keeping them in my journal. Here a re a few of my favs.

1. "My happyness is the most important thing here, and if I have to become the unreasonable bitch to get it so be it!"

2. "Mommy's parents were divorced when she was your age and look how strong it made her."

3. "You haven't earned my respect, you were just a sperm donor."

4. "We're just friends, and his wife knows that, sos top trying to contact her."

5. "It would be the easiest thing in the world to get back together with you, but where would that leave me?"

6. "Kids don't need a fther, they need a mother and financial stability."

7. "I've been looking deep within myself and have made some pretty major chnages."

8. "I haven't changed a bit, you're the one who needs to change."

9. "Don't make me choose between you and my father...you'll lose."

10."My family supports my decisions completely, what I tell them is my business. Their job is to help me rebuild if I make a mistake."

11."I never truly gave my heart to you."

12."The kids will be fine, divorces happen all the time."

There's alot more, but I was just curious what some of yours were. I'll bet they are all variations of the same foggy thoughts.


Me: 36 years old 1st marriage
Wife: 40 years old second marriage
S: 12
D: 6
Status: Separated Nov 2/08, Served papers Feb 18/09.
PA confirmed 03/09
Custody: 1 week on, 1 week off, wife wants sole.