I am from the South and I am sorry but what is this place in Montreal called, not the name of the place but the type of place.
I have never heard anything like that, sounds a bit gay to me, lol.
As far as your comment to him, I would not worry too much about it, you have said that you would go anywhere with him, WAS's just like to take anything from us and use it to justify their craziness.
You have several advantages going for you, you both live in the same house, and he has said that he is pretty much scared he cannot live without you. That is pretty good there, my wife 3 months ago said she wanted a divorce and could not stand to look at me. Now we have a better R than we did before the bomb hit in January.
Start to do things for yoursef, go out with some of your friends, I started doing that and continue to do that today for myself. It is Friday Happy hour in about 5 hours and 20 minutes and I will meet some friends for a couple of hours, it really makes them wonder what you are doing. Start having fun with yourself, he will want to join in!
If you truly would travel with him, maybe do some research on moving, look at some houses, I hear Montreal is very nice, cold, but nice, in a Canadian socialist type of way, lol. Burt