I wouldn't say anything. Every time you bring it up.... she feels guilt, and then she has to think about OM. If she says anything to you about it.... then of course tell her your thoughts. It's just a glass.... your more focused on it than she is. Let her take of these things in her own time.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too