I think she tried to guilt me at various times. For instance, she said that if only I had waited 3 more days before meeting my GF that she would have come back. She tried to re-write history. I had given up on wanting her coming back several months before I ever met GF. She said that I probably hate her to which I replied that I and quite a few others do indeed hate her. She has made the kids lives and mine much more difficult with her selfishness.

Another thing she tried blaming me for was that S8 had told his friday daycare teacher that asian women are difficult as wives. The teacher pointed that she (India) was happily married for 20+ years and that his dad (me) had a very nice GF that was asian. I think the boy came up with his own opinion or someone else mentioned it to him. I defended myself and said that I dont classify any group as being difficult in a marriage, but that only XW was personally difficult and lacked her own moral qualities.

She told me that several times over the last year that she thought of just letting me have the kids full time and having herself leave (go back to Thailand?).

It was so very difficult to convince her to help me out some financially. She currently has the big payout from the division of assets and spousal support in her checking. I told her that if it was me that it would be in a CD and some safe mutual funds backed by bonds that pay out income.

FIB - I dont quite understand the relationship with sugar daddy (Ed). I asked her why she does not consult with him regarding taxes, setting up a computer or investing - why does she ask me these things? She replied that she wants to do things independently on her own. I think she has herself trapped in a relationship with him just to have a roof over her head, but I dont really care to know what goes on in her head anymore.

I sat with her and Ed last night at the kids spring musical concerts. Ed and I dont exchange many words. My dad and step mom were there behind us and got to see Ed's shiney bald head with age spots for the first time. They noticed that he dresses in a way that is much younger than his actual age (68).

If Ed has a stroke, heart attack or other health problem, she will be up a creek and I think she would probably escape back to Thailand.