It seems to me that the utter PREDICTABILITY of her behavior might be an opportunity for you to plan something -- ahead of time -- that would be a new reaction for you.
Naturally, I have no freaking clue what that would BE, but I'm just sayin' . . .
Puppy
Oh, I've got something planned if this the predictability of this continues. Now that I know she took the glass down, I'm going to give her some time to see if she is truly WD'ing. We go to Disney in 6 weeks. I know we'll connect when we're there.
If we come back and this pattern repeats itself, I'm going to tell her that obviously something is going on while she's at work that affects how she is with me and would she like to talk about it? If she doesn't bite, I've made up my mind to tell her that there's obviously something going on while she's at work and I'm done trying if she can't/won't be truthful with me.
Probably won't word it exactly like that, but something along those lines.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
