Thanks Pup, but I may have found the reason.

I stopped by her office today as I had to check a couple things at the Refinery.

And lo and behold, the glass is gone from her shelf. Now I'm not so stupid as to think that she threw it away, but it's no longer anywhere visible in her office.

I'm guessing here, but after the great weekend we had and great Monday, did she take the glass down and now is going through some WD?

I also asked her about sleeping on the couch and she said she took some sudafed last night and she fell a sleep on the couch and didn't wake up til 1:30 and thought it was stupid to go upstairs then. That sounds reasonable to me.

But get this. I really just stopped in to say hi and I told her I knew she was busy and I'd let her get back to work and she just kept talking and talking. I asked her a couple questions that she kind of snapped at and I called her on it and her tone changed IMMEDIATELY. I literally said "I'll let you get back to work" 4 times and she just kept bringing up more things to talk about.

Kind of sounds like WD to me? Or am I off base here?

So here's the questions. Do I thank her for taking the glass down? Sounds like an opportunity to reward good behavior to me.

I would just say "I noticed that you got rid of the glass and I wanted to thank you. You don't know how much that means to me to know you are considering my feelings in this".

What do ya think?


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.