Swimming upstream...PH #7

[pearlharbr]

Puppy, sorry if I stole your line! You know imitation is the highest form of flattery. I also like another one I picked up from a mailing list: Pffft

To be honest, I have not done a whole lot of reading on infidelity withdrawl or anything else on the other side because I never thought I would need it for practical reasons. I just put it off for being too painful now, something to come back to in the future. So I'm still slogging through "Not Just Friends" and intend to finish it up by tomorrow.

Let me clarify however: this does NOT mean to need to compromise on ANY of your terms and conditions! It must means you may have to call him on his b.s. a few times, instead of taking the "He knows what I need; I'm not going to remind him of it again; it's up to him to show me if he can do it" stance of yours.

Thank you for pointing out the difference here. That I can handle. And thanks to Amy also who basically made the same point to me in the alt. Not that I don't trust and value your opinion, I just understand it better in Puppy vernacular.