I wake up every morning telling myself I am strong and will keep going, but it is getting hard, very hard. I read the books over and over and believe there is hope, but then the reality hits and I am not sure there is. I can't give up for me or my children, but I am growing weak... I have tried everything. Her mother told me last night that "if she does this she will regret it. you are such a wonderful husband and father. She could never replace you." Like the rest of us here... I am a good guy, a very good guy. We never had problems other than being busy... never fighting, yelling, anything... guess that was my sign that my "perfect" marriage was a time bomb. I hurt so bad right now!


Me - 35
W - 32 (EA with OM)
M - 13 1/2
D - 11
S - 9
ILYBNILWY - January 2009
Status - Limbo