You always seem to describe your W in rather selfish terms: outside of the bedroom, she wants to be provided for, cared for, and pandered to; inside of the bedroom, she focuses entirely on her own pleasure, and does nothing for you beyond 'offering a vagina' for you use.
And now that she is a recently returned WAW, there is the constant, unspoken threat that if you don't continue to cater to her, she'll leave again.
The question is: is my above description accurate, or skewed because this forum is where you come to vent? To what degree does SHE accept responsibility for the failures in your relationship, and what has she done about it?
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007
