Hey FB2 sorry this well meaning guy has annoyed you.....as far as the "total destruction" is concerned, I think T can either add to it by showing his frustration or downplaying the whole situation in front of his kids.
T, you and I have been posting to each other for a while and our writing "styles" have usually been "in your face". I really hope i did not come across as insensitive to you. If I did, i apologize T.