I have been given the opportunity to start a job with a brand new business which combines my love of golf with IT. It's commission only for the first 3 months and then hopefully, a proper package and a area with a growing business. As worrying as it will be to have to rely on commission, I asked my wife what she thought as I believe this is communicating and also it is a big decision for me to make. Her reaction was luke warm to say the least, so much so that she barely uttered a word. No questions, no imput and no enthusiasm.
I also was asked by someone if we wanted a beatiful piece of yorke stone to complement the back of the house. When I suggested it would look nice she said "why are you bothered, I am making the decisions on this house seeing as you will not own it soon". I was raging inside but did not react, also she expects me to carry on decorating, helping with the garden, and generally still paying for things. I feel she is taking the pi** out of me, I don't know whether to ignore her and continue to do things around the house, or tell her to get on with it and do it herself?
Last edited by markhaving probs; 04/03/0912:39 PM.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
