He is planning on paying child support and even if he isn't I'm going to call the court tomorrow and see how I would go about getting some if he doesn't. I am making an appointment with an atty this coming week. I'm not going to do this blindly or just give him what he wants. But I don't want him to see me as an enemy either. The money part wasn't so smart I don't think. I don't know. It's all so confusing. Where do you draw the line between doing the DB stuff and being practical? I hate always second guessing myself.