Hi sotired, ........... I am so sorry to hear about your news. I totally understand where you are at, mentally, today. I just went through this last week myself.
I know words can't describe your feelings of pain and resentment right now.
I hope you do go and talk with your family and I hope they are as supportive and loving as mine have been. Both you and your little man need all the unconditional love and support ou can get right now.
I have no words of advice for you my firend, I just wanted to let you know that I have been keeping up with your sitch. I just want to say this website has been an unbelievable source of love and support for me, so stay on here, we are all in your corner to be there to listen.
I know some of the veterans out there will have sound advice for you right now that I can't offer.
Love that little man of yours, he needs a strong father.
Thnx for the response. My little man is my source of strength these days, and one of the things that always makes me smile in these tough times.
I am still not sure about letting the family in on it yet because I know it will mean that regardless of the outcome, they will always hold it against her. But I don't really see how I can keep it from them much longer.
I just spent time talking with a friend. And he suggested that I ask for a 6month physical separation. Though I have a feeling she'll use this against me since I didn't agree to a separation when she asked for it before. Plus I don't know how we can do this though because of the money situation right now (I still haven't found a new job yet).
But other than that I don't know what other options are left.
