I think a lot of women don't change it because of the kids. If D happens, I'm not changing mine. And the rest of that is that it's not up to YOU, it's up to HER. No worries anyway, because if she marries Schmuckatelli, then that will be her new last name...and what a burden THAT is gonna be.
Melissa
PS. Wanted to add this. Some people get on here and criticize us for analyzing/overanalyzing the stitch. But that is what this site is here for. It is the PURPOSE of this site to analyze the stitch and help the marriage, to STOP OUR DIVORCE. It is for that reason that the majority of people get on here to post updates about what has happened in their marriage or divorce that day. Yes, we need to GAL, yes we need to become individuals capable of functioning on our own. No one is debating that. I'm just trying to figure out what else it is ya'll are wanting us to post about or are you just rathering we not post at all? I am not attacking anyone at all or pointing fingers at anyone. It has just been a "overall feeling" I get sometimes. Maybe it is just me. Isn't the first time. Won't be the last time.
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
