Can't. It will break the karmic cycle. I'll give you this much: it is a contest in a particular field; it has prize money; but what matters is placing in the top 3. If that happens it could be a total life-changer. But I won't know until August 19, 2 months after WAW moves out.

Hey -- what do you guys think about me asking W to change her name back? I'm not sure I want her dating and whatever else with my handle stuck on.