I don't usually read the old timers.. : ) I am not saying you are old btw.
It seems like you life is moving along just fine.
What do you get out of talking to your XH? Not him...screw him...but you? Anything? You know you might not ever get the real answers, and I hope that you know now that they are unimportant.
If you get something from it, then evalute if it is worth the cost to you.
If you don't get anything from it.
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he is considering if it might be better to break off all contact now we are divorced. The woman he married would not have done such a thing.
Agree with him. You don't even have to be snide about it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
