I'm with Stuck, you don't want to make her afraid and you don't want to hold this over her head as well, IF she does come back. But that's a ways down the road.

Me - 39
W - 39
D - 11
D - 8
S - 5
Served - 04/14/09
Temporary Court Orders - 04/27/09

Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.