BTW - I'm not saying not to care about your H or not to try. Just maybe don't act like it. Your H has been more comfortable with you because you pretty much blew out of the water everything he was hiding. He has nothing to hide A, got caught, taking money out, got caught. Less guilt - maybe??


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)