OW's D-16 called me last night! She said she finally found out my last name to find my number. Told me her dad quit his job in TX to "work" things out. He found out about A from his D. After a week OW kicked him out and filed for D. OW's D said her mom blamed everything on H (surprise). Left the poor guy homeless without a job! D also said mom is acting juvenile (this coming from a teenager)and ignoring her S-10. Ignoring all other family and friends, saying she is finally happy, etc. Same stuff my H. All OW and my H do is spend time with one another. D finally said I had enough and said she was going to move out. Her mom said "whatever". So sad!! OW's D was crying when she told me that. She said that is not what her mom would of said in the past. OW also her H to "watch" the kids for a long weekend. Her and my H holed up in his apt. for 4 days over his birthday! That's so sweet I got a toothache. Whatever, it just sound like our two families lives are so parallel it's unbelievable!
So how long does this "infatuation" stage last and what comes after that? This is not mature love at all!!
They are so much in their own little world. Why can't they see what they are doing is affecting everyone around them! Frustrating to say the least. I'm expecting D papers any time. Since H is following OW's lead in everything else! I'd better go find a lawyer.
Me:44 H:40 D:14 S:12 Bomb: 12/08 & 12/04 H moved out 2/09
