I want to clarify something - when I said your H will slip up again, I wasn't referring to his R with the Troll (what goes on with her - now, then, or ever - shouldn't even occupy any of your attention/focus). I meant with you and the way you two interact with each other.
It is nice that he seems to be making a real effort this time, but as pointed out, the deadline has passed, and I am certain he will begin to relax....and that's when the old patterns and behavior come back. Those old habits, ya know? I know you know what I'm talking about. You have even stated yourself about the fears you have of not being able to work through the issues (from both sides) that got you both here to begin with.
MC (not just IC) is your only chance at REAL, LASTING change. You HAVE TO FOLLOW THROUGH. This is something I have learned, the hard way.
I know exactly what you mean and I know you are right. If there is any chance for us, we will have to do MC in order to break old habits and relearn how to communicate. Its too easy to go back to the familiar and comfortable ways of doing things, but its a death sentence to a R.
Originally Posted By: MichelleLT
Can I buy tickets?
Tickets are available at all Vallitix locations and ebay as well.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
