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K and Puppy,
You are right. I need to let him know even though I know he WILL get angry. Ever since he had his "crazy time" 4 years ago I have had trouble with that. It makes me so mad, because I use to be such a strong person, able to stand up for myself. Now he gets mad and I shut down and take it. NOT GOOD I know. I am becoming stronger each day, I have to remind myself baby steps. Saw my C today, she said basically same thing as you. Expect him to get angry, but detach yourself from his anger, it is his not yours. You are setting a realistic boundary.
I can do this, baby steps!

Thanks again!