Hey All I've been out of the loop lately. Sorry about that. So after the four great days at home with him, we had a set back. Stupid ex-OW called him and I felt like we (S and me) got the blow off so he could talk to her. Ex-OW, who shall from now on be called Loser, needs a lot of career help because basically, she has a criminal record and if she applies for a job, her resume is ok, but then the criminal check comes back and she's screwed. But not my problem. Anyways, we talked about how I was feeling and I can't say I felt much better. Yesterday, he picked up S and went to the gym. Afterward he texted me, we talked and I went home to him and S and stayed there. We had a great time. I mentioned Loser once as he was telling a work story (they work together) and he stopped his story and said basically if you bring her up again, I'm going to kick you out of the house or if we are on the phone, I'm going to hang up on you. I said Sounds good. Deal. And the night was fabulous from there. We facebooked a little bit today even though he's super busy at work. He kissed me good bye this morning too which was quite lovely. So there are days when I think "We can do it! We can make it togehter!!" Then there are days when I think "WTH??? We aren't going to make it." So, still on the roller coaster. Any advice or insight....lay it on me.
Still GALing and a few 180's thrown in for good measure, but I think I'm going to really concentrate on the 180's now. I'm very happy and satisified with my 180's.
Oh and we have planned a family vaca for S's birthday this month and the following weekend we are going out of town again with another couple, just adults. So that's good stuff too.
