How many of you husbands out there were having sexless relationships with your wives for significant periods of time before the eventual separation from your wife/before your wife started having an affair with another man?
How many of you noticed that your wives had lost pretty much all sexual desire, wives told you in fact that they were no longer interested in sex, and spent a great deal of energy avoiding any physical contact with you for fear that it might lead to sex with you? How many of you ever suspected that your wives were having physical affairs with other men during this period of time or did you believe that your wives were incapable of cheating because they were "good women and just weren't like that".
If you do respond back, please also indicate how old you are, how old your wife was when this started, how long you were married and what the general state of the relationship was during this period of time? What's the state of the marriage/relationship now? How are you during this period of time: still heart broken/devastated or doing alright/GAL & detaching?
I'd call this an informal survey, I've totally immersed myself in so many studies on separations/break-ups/divorces,etc that the info I'm starting to discover on this topic is really opening my eyes to the real causes behind these situations.
