Thanks guys. I'll be telling her soon that I'm not going anywhere. I'm just going to do it and see what happens. There is a big risk but I feel I've been working on my part (getting a life, enhancing job, organizing, socializing, working on personal issues) and detaching. I feel ready.
Today I'm even kinda' wondering why I would want to be married to someone who would want me to leave my own house and children.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
