pearlharbr,

Not so! (healthier) I've been following your thread. You sound like you have a plan and others are stating that too.

The concerns you mention about friends. You use that same confidence with them that you are with xBF. Like you said, this is your decision and you decide what you want. Your real friends will support your decision and the others we don't worry about. Friends care and they don't want to see you hurt. That factors into their point of view sometimes more than any real thought to the situation and sometimes when they walk away you leave their thoughts completely. You will live with your decision. I think you are really strong in this. Hang in tough. Like I say you have a lot of approval going on in your thread, be proud of the stand you're making \:\)

As far as me healthy ...argh! But I did get a boost of confidence the other day drinking a martini when an atractive woman checked me out \:\) Honestly I was doing really well until my Friday event. It sucked me in big time. I didn't see that coming. But we all learn. I should have paid more attention to other peoples posts \:\)


my second thread