So what I wanted to know is what Gucci and Puppy and the other men here would think if faced with a "wooing" requirement. Here's where I'm coming from: I need to feel like he wants to win me. I know there are other men out there who would want to be with me so I need him to realize that and act accordingly.
Pearl,
It would depend on how you phrased all of the above, and what your demeanor was as you presented it to me, but to be honest with you -- if I was presented with the above "list of demands" -- I'd run very fast. I would draw the conclusion that this was hopeless, and that you were un-pleasable.