Hi J,

I'm ok thanks, hope you are too. It's just about ok at the moment, I move out in a couple of works as some of my previous posts mentioned. I found a post from someone on Newcomers which was advice from a DB coach on how to be when your spouse turns up or you see her in regard to the children. I can't find it now. Anyway, I know its not the right thing to do, but as previously mentioned the children are suffering, and to be honest I am looking forward to having space as well. It will be good for the children and removes the intensity at home. I proposed to my wife which was agreed upon that I will move back to the marital home in June and she moves out to her parents who will be in Greece until the end of August.

Other than that I am still searching for a job which is stressful in itself.


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years