Wow your trip sounds ace !!! I've never been to Ireland although it isnt far for me and I would really like to. My ex has family in Dublin and we meant to go stay with them before we split, damn!
As for STBX, I am sorry he got back with her, thats not nice, seeing as she was instrumental in failing to reconcile with him. Its not surprising you were hurt to hear that. Interesting that you continue to hear reports of him not being ok, depressed, unhappy, avoidant, drinking alot.. I sometimes think these guys just are like that.. that they perked up for a while there with us, then slipped back to their old ways once the R ended! You know? Anyway, your H as in my ex did also experience some tough times which precipitated a crisis I guess and they are just not doing enough to sort themselves out (like remaining single, going to IC and working on their issues!!! Nope, just fall into the arms of needy OW instead).
Glad that R is proving to be such a nice bloke, I agree with K, he looks it on FB.
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
