I just wanted to let you know how proud I am of how you've been handling this. Way to go!!!! I am also very interested in hearing your ideas for new goals for yourself. I completely understand giving them secret space to germinate in (I think that's why I haven't been posting much myself).
Question: what is your intention at this poin? what is your goal with H? what is your true heart's desire? It sounds like you feel relieved to talk about D, excited to be moving forward with your life. Are you "done"? Are you still interested in being with your H, romantically? Or are you happy to be friends with him, and make space for a new man in your life to love you? Whatever the answers are, I support you entirely in your decisions and I am so proud of you. You are in a completely different place than you were a year ago!!!!!!!!!!
I guess in terms of how to progress, maybe just leave things to progress naturally? It seems that is working for you already. unless you feel a reason to do otherwise, if there's some kind of timeframe to push for more frequent meetings.
