Diane:

This is BEYOND dysfunctional. All the real stuff between you two is kept in the undercurrent, even after a major move like your letter. Unacceptable.

The longer you stay with him, the more you are reinforcing that he doesn't have to do anything to keep you as his roommate.

I'm so sorry. He is standing his ground on this, which is forcing you into a place that I know you are afraid to go.

Be strong and try to do some good things for yourself.

Keep us posted!

Lucky