Has anyone else run into the emotional conflict while DB'ing?
The reason you see her differently now is because she is hurting you. The woman you hold in such high regard and love is trampling on your heart. It's "normal" to look at her now and feel like "ILYBNILWY." You have to realize she is months to years ahead of you on this curve. You already have trampled on her heart for her to get to this point. It is a form of detachment but use it to gain understanding and insight. It won't last forever. The positive, loving feelings all come back but you must pass thru the stages - friendship to courtship first. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
