AF: It is very interesting to look back at the evolution of your attitude toward your sitch. You really have come a long way! I think that your current attitude of "I would like to be with her, if she would change, but I could take or leave it" is the most mature and evolved that you have had! THAT is wisdom: hard-fought and dearly bought.
P.D. -- that's true; I hadn't thought of that. Good point!
