Stress, WAW and life in general II

[Coach]

I don't know what she said, but I can guess it was that she wants to move out and remain friends with benefits.

You just did some mind-reading. Then you got yourself in a bad place. You have no idea what she is really thinking yet you let in control your attitude. That's a co-dependent tendency.

We'll see. I'm very very tired. I can't trust her. So I don't, but I suspect it shows in the way we interact.

It probably does show. Her actions will heal this for you.

Now she makes it a point to say goodnight. She makes excuses to talk to me via text or email. She is trying to connect and I'm in panic mode because I think she still wants to leave.

Two comments: now you know how bizarre your DBing efforts look to her. And second you are mind reading again and it cost you a opportunity to connect a little - act as if.

Cheers