Yes, I know and am working on this as you know its not always easy. Well, today my W txt me this morning asking if I could take S13 to his orthodontist appointment, I txt back "Sorry, I have an appointment this afternoon". Then she txt back "Ok, just thought I’d asked" and I deleted her message without responding. I'm wondering if I start taking the kids to their appts what's left for her to do with them? She takes them to and from school and to other appointments but if she wants me to do that, then she really has let go of her responsibilities. Also, on Wednesday nights she is supposed to come over to have dinner with the kids, last night she spent maybe, maybe up to 2 hours with them - WOW. Then she left, went to the liquor store and back to OM. I don't think she realizes what she is missing out by not spending much time with our kids. I know I'm enjoying every minute now as she is out of the house, I get their undivided attention each day \:\) ! Also, I don't worry about her time with them as I did in the beginning of this sitch.

Me-44
WAW-42 (ILYBNILWY)
S-16
S-14
M-10/17/1992 T23
Met OM 10/10/08; Bomb 12/27/08; Moved in with OM 01/27/09
Me stronger and happier everyday!