I know how you feel, I'm suspicious of the new affection also. I keep wondering is he buttering me up for the big farewell. I'm afraid of his behavior when he returns b/c the last time he got back was when he decided he wanted a D.

Their moodswings are rediculous. Enjoy your date out with your W, but just be expectant of a moodswing in the days after. It may not come, but prepare yourself just in case.

I'm expecting one by next wk, when the depression sets in and my H is mopey b/c vacation time is over. It may not come, but I'm not letting my guard down.

I will "act as if", but I'll be waiting LOL.

So.... where are you going for your date? ;\)


M:28 H:30
DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10
T-14 | M-8

10/08- Bomb
4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program
3/10- WH moved out.
7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug