I know how you feel, I'm suspicious of the new affection also. I keep wondering is he buttering me up for the big farewell. I'm afraid of his behavior when he returns b/c the last time he got back was when he decided he wanted a D.
Their moodswings are rediculous. Enjoy your date out with your W, but just be expectant of a moodswing in the days after. It may not come, but prepare yourself just in case.
I'm expecting one by next wk, when the depression sets in and my H is mopey b/c vacation time is over. It may not come, but I'm not letting my guard down.
I will "act as if", but I'll be waiting LOL.
So.... where are you going for your date?
M:28 H:30 DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10 T-14 | M-8
10/08- Bomb 4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program 3/10- WH moved out. 7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug