So Confused,

My ex's other woman is 10 years younger. She has a really bad complexion though and looks a lot older than she is.

She has no friends and her family lives out of state. They don't pay much attention to her at all.

What has been really puzzling to my family and me though with OW is the fact that ex and her do not live together. It would save them money and they have been at this for a good 3 years.

She is his secretary........ so cliche, but he has to be with her 8-12 hours per day.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11