A definite yes to wearing the ring. My H has made a habit of taking it off when angry, when we were living together. When separated he took it off and on. Partly due to my "rule" that one can't talk about working on the R without it. Everytime he tried o talk to me about getting back together and working on the R I pointed out to the lack of a ring on his finger. I have been tempted to take it off too, but until there is a D, I consider myself M. By insisting on the ring being on during any discussion about the M, it became a symbol that it was meant to be. Others on the board suggested that when he was taking it off and on that it was a sign that he was working through his emotions. I on the other hand, have never taken it off. There are others who say it doesnt' mean anything but it really depends on you. If it is important and a deal breaker - he knows that and has to make a decision.
ABout the house, is it possible to find a new one? You both may need neutral ground. Sounds like there are other issues going on that need to be resolved?
Could you both try to pretend you are just starting out?
