Originally Posted By: stuck808
Well pick yourself up and look at the bright side. One of the last things she told you was that she would think about postponing the D. That's great news and right now it seems like she's acting on that.

Hang in there.


Just wanted to be clear, she's not considering pausing the 24 month filing clock on the divorce. That time is running

What she said she would consider is to delay any other divorce related legal matters until she has taken some time to heal and think things through to make sure she's not making a mistake. The thought process is not to have anything else distract/hurt that process. I had thought about reminding her about what she said but not sure about that. Any thoughts?


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13