Unfortunately, IMO, the only thing you can do is decide if you are able to let the lies flow off your back or not. Personally, I couldn't do it anymore and when I called xh on the carpet for them and showed him that I wasn't willing to accept his BS anymore, that is when the crap really hit the fan. I hope you can find a more diplomatic way to stand up to him than I did. I'm afraid that once they start lying, it's nearly impossible for them to stop. The lies become reality to them and they can't differentiate between their fantasy world and the real world anymore.

I pray you find peace and understanding enough to let it all go for your own health and wellbeing.

Take care of you and your adorable kids.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!