I don't have an atty yet. I was naively hoping it wouldn't get to that point. My mother is a legal secretary so I'm going to talk to her about meeting with someone on Tuesday. I don't know what he wants to talk about regarding divorce, but it's the first time he's wanted to talk about anything regarding the relationship. I feel like it'll be beneficial to me to hear what he has to say so that I have some direction. At this point I know nothing of what caused him to leave other than he can't be around me. Maybe this will give me some sort of insight. It's all just so confusing.
IF you feel like you can have this meeting WITHOUT negotiating, or hurting yourself emotionally, then okay. But I'd still advise against it until you've had a chance to have that first legal consultation.
