What does your L say about this NC? I would think this is very unlikely. I'm sad to hear about your SIL and brother. It sounds like they just have too much stress on their plates. Divorce adds more stress so don't really see how that will help them. I think in the long run they may see that, hopefully before it's too late!!! It sounds like they have workable problems esp. if there's no A and it sounds like mutual respect for each other. Karen
