I think you're in a down period. Your post is definitely not as lively as in the past few days. I think the talk the other night about custody knocked the wind out of your sails.
Stuck808,
Thanks for the encouragement. It has been a pretty blah day. Nothing too eventful for the positive. I did have a good session with my therapisy and she helped me think through what I really want for a parenting agreement (I really like PMA-Baby!'s phrase). We also had talked about how I felt about my wife. It was a little disturbing as I'm getting worried about how I'm starting to feel now that my wife keeps rejecting me.
I had found it hard to believe how my wife could just fall out of love. I didn't understand how it is possible, but I'm worred it may be happening to me
I'm not sure if my therapist is working this to prepare me in case the divorce happens or at least ease the transition to being alone again (50% of the time).
That's another reason why I'm feeling so blah.
Has anyone else run into the emotional conflict while DB'ing? Or is this really detachment?
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13