Crazy, you are so right. I forgot the IUD issue. It can cause ectopic pregnancies. Sorry to mislead you.
Yes, I have been lurking in the shadows for ages. I think marriage is piecing though... probably will not come out with my own sitch.
Wishing you the best
June, That's good to hear for you. At least you've found us and can take the good with the bad. LOL!!
thanks so much for the well wishes; and I also wish you the best. I understand piecing is the hardest part.
Could she be lying and stating what the GYN had mentioned originally about the possibility of an ectopic with an IUD? Or the literature she read when she got the IUD? The more I think about this is still does not make sense. My mom was a GYN nurse for 20 plus years, I wish she was awake right now I would ask her (I was in ICU), I had a high-risk pregnancy. Why would they not get an ultrasound ASAP if there was some concern of ectopic pregnancy? Ectopic's can kill you. Usually there in an ultrasound suite and tech on site and any concerns can get looked at right away. They always did for me... and the is two different GYN's I'm talking about. Did she get a script for an ultrasound off sight? I would think a doctor would be so liable if there was any legitimate concerns about an ectopic and the ectopic ruptured. Why would they wait and allow a possible ectopic to grow and risk it? I don't know enough. I really am going to try and find out more tomorrow just for my own curiosity. This baffles me...
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)