I don't have an atty yet. I was naively hoping it wouldn't get to that point. My mother is a legal secretary so I'm going to talk to her about meeting with someone on Tuesday. I don't know what he wants to talk about regarding divorce, but it's the first time he's wanted to talk about anything regarding the relationship. I feel like it'll be beneficial to me to hear what he has to say so that I have some direction. At this point I know nothing of what caused him to leave other than he can't be around me. Maybe this will give me some sort of insight. It's all just so confusing.