Offer to take her to her OB/GYN, and confirm the pregnancy. Apologize, but say "considering the long-term consequences of what we're about to potentially do, I need to be sure," and then insist upon it.
If she balks, offer to watch her pee on the strip. If she balks at THAT, you'll have your answer, and will know very sadly what you're dealing with.
Puppy
Puppy...I wonder if I even need to do that. She asked me tonight why I wanted to wait to do the settlement. I told her first that I don't have the money (A lie!!; just a way to postpone); second, I don't want to do in front of our son; and third, given what you've told me there are legal ramifications of which I am woefully uninformed. The divorce decree is a document that will govern our relationship for the rest of our lives. She was like, "I would never do anything bad to you." I replied, "it doesn't matter; I'm responsible for protecting myself. Therefore, I will." I told her that this will HAVE to be addressed in the settlement; therefore, I need more time to get legal advice.
So my point is that I'm going to address in the settlement whether it's true or not. She said; I'm going to prepare for it. Any thoughts? still think I should demand proof?
Then I get this gem thrown at me, "OM wanted me to let you know that he doesn't want you to feel like you have to help." I laughed and replied, "WTF, his timing for the consideration of my feelings is WAAAYYYYYY off the mark."
and I have presented further evidence of why I marriedCrazy!!!!
